English Communication Skill:  More Secrets of Talk Magnets

Talk Magnets communicate so that other people feel comfortable and start and blossom seeds of relationships built on rapport.

The relationship is the foundation of social and work life.

Talk magnets will notice what surrounds another person, say a picture of an ocean setting, and start a conversation.  When they stumble on a topic of importance to the other person, they are willing to pursue it and reveal about themselves.  When you reveal things about yourself,  experiences, viewpoints, desires, you give the other person something they can respond to.

Talk Magnets listen to others and get to know them.  In the work place, that is how they get to know how to meet their needs.

Talk Magnets go out of their way to make people feel comfortable.  My brother wears a tie with little children on it.   The tie is eye-catching and fun.  It lets people know they can approach him and gives them something to talk about.

Women can invite people’s conversation with anything that is fun, unusual—a pin, earrings, bright scarf.  When we see someone with something unusual or fun, we know they are inviting conversation and it is okay to comment.

Conversational T-shirts are ice-breakers  We wear our opinions, ideas, and commitments across our chests.  We get them as gifts or  as “part of the event.”  In either case, they give others something to talk about.  I have friends who wear ones from art museums, music venues, amusement parks, and national parks.

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